Personal checklist
Families and friends of missing people often mention that a personal checklist helps provide direction amongst the confusion they are facing. The following may be useful.
Employment
- An employer can be advised of the situation to discuss the possibility of time off work (if required). A confidante or employee assistance services may assist in the workplace.
Home life
- Neighbours may need to be informed that police and/or media will be present in the area.
- Relatives or friends may be called upon to take care of chores like cleaning, washing, ironing or preparing meals.
- It may be arranged for a close friend or relative to take the children to and from school, where search commitments or appointments are overlapping.
Financial commitments
- Bank managers or financial advisers may need to be consulted if extra funds are required to help cover mortgage repayments, rent, bills or any unexpected travel or personal expenses.
- It may be arranged for a close friend, colleague or relative to help the family keep track bills or other committments.
Privacy Issues
- Many families and friends of missing persons disseminate their own posters or search information to ensure that the community is aware that someone is missing. It is advised that a private telephone or mobile phone numbers should not be publicised. The investigating police officer can provide advice on the most appropriate number to provide.
- Families of missing persons are often contacted by psychics and clairvoyants. While some may be genuinely trying to help, however families and friends should not feel obliged to deal with them. It may be more appropriate for the psychic to be referred to contact the case officer.